The Body Never Lies: Deception Experts Share Secrets

The Body Never Lies: Deception Experts Share Secrets

Have you ever found yourself tired of being lied to?  Few, if any people, actually enjoy being lied to, but somehow everyone seems to tell untruths.  Of course, some people tell more lies than others do.  The deception experts at Oklahoma Judicial Process Servers www.OklahomaJudicialProcessServers.com would like to share a few secrets with you.  This way you can have a few indications of deception, which when taken as part of a whole scenario, can give you insight into whether or not someone is trying to lie to you.  Here are a few of many clues you can look for . . .

A person in Oklahoma or elsewhere who is trying to deceive you often avoids eye contact.  Why is this?  People who lie often feel very uncomfortable making eye contact with a person they are lying to.  If someone you are talking to really tries to avoid eye contact, then be on guard!  Of course, some cultures teach kids not to look at their elders in the eyes, so one must be sure to take the cultural aspects into perspective.

Another way in which a person might be deceptive is by shaking his or her head  side to side as if to say, “No” when making a statement.  This often indicates that the person you are speaking with has absolutely no confidence in what he or she is telling you.  Individuals often do this without even knowing it!

A skilled deception expert, whether in Oklahoma or elsewhere, would also spot someone who is likely to be lying, if the person covers his or her mouth or touches other parts of his or her head when making statements.  Often referred to as the “unconscious cover-up”, individuals often do this automatically when they are telling lies.  They unconsciously try to hide their mouth or face to “cover up” what they know they should not be saying.

Some people try to distance themselves from the person they are lying to by putting some sort of barrier in between the two of you.  This could be anything from a briefcase to a pillow or a glass of water.  This forms an unconscious barrier between you and that person.  This sometimes happens when people are uncomfortable with the situation, and it is a possible indication of deception.

Finally, watch out if someone ever says, “To tell you the truth,” or, “Not to offend you but . . .”  If these statements are not what that individual normally says, then whatever follows them is unlikely true or is meant to be offensive.  If something is true or the person does not mean to offend you, then the person does not need to state the fact that it is not a lie or something “non-offensive”.  The person’s words should speak for themselves, without having to justify it up front.

These are just a few indications of deception.  It is important to remember that it is vital that a person takes these indications of deception in conjunction with other clues and the situation as a whole.  Having a skilled deception expert on hand to help you can prove to be invaluable, so do not hesitate to contact one at (405) 593-3515 or by visiting www.OklahomaJudicialProcessServers.com.  Their lie detection division will help you in Oklahoma, another state, or around the world!